{"id":1469,"date":"2017-06-19T17:09:03","date_gmt":"2017-06-19T17:09:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/?p=1469"},"modified":"2017-06-19T19:31:10","modified_gmt":"2017-06-19T19:31:10","slug":"perspective-changes-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/perspective-changes-everything\/","title":{"rendered":"Perspective Changes Everything!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was running some errands on Sunday and brought my youngest son, Daniel along with me. He&#8217;s my sidekick most of the time. Daniel is one of these dudes who likes to talk. And by that I mean he never stops \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>I tend to stay in my head&#8211;because I&#8217;m a man of few words. So when I&#8217;m hanging with Daniel\u00a0he&#8217;s talking a mile a minute and I&#8217;m doing my best to stay present and listen.<\/p>\n<p>We pulled onto the highway and Daniel asked&#8230;&#8221;How long do you suppose those dashed lines are on the road?&#8221; He was talking about the white dashed lines that separate two lanes going in the same direction.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/white-lines.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1470 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/white-lines-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/white-lines-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/white-lines-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/white-lines.jpg 453w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I looked over at the lines and said, &#8220;Maybe, 2 feet?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I could see from the smile on his face that he was going to enjoy this conversation. Daniel loves to\u00a0play with my head any chance he can. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So, you think they&#8217;re 2 feet long?&#8221;, he asked again.<\/p>\n<p>I looked at the lines a little longer and said, &#8220;Yeah, I think they&#8217;re about 2 feet.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Daniel replied&#8230;&#8221;Nope. They&#8217;re 10 FEET LONG!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;10 FEET?! No way!&#8221;&#8230; I looked more closely. There was NO WAY they were 10 feet long. \u00a0I started telling him how 10 feet was like stacking his two sisters on top of each other&#8230;. and how that couldn&#8217;t possibly be true.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/phone.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1471 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/phone.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/a>Then he pulled out his phone and read me how all it&#8217;s a federal guideline for every street, highway and rural road in the United States, where dashed lines separate traffic lanes or indicate where passing is allowed. Then for the next 10 minutes Daniel went on to explain why the dashes looked so short but\u00a0were actually quite long.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll spare you that conversation \ud83d\ude09 But the next time you&#8217;re out driving, take a look at the\u00a0dashed lines on the road&#8230;&#8230;.they&#8217;re 10 FEET LONG!<\/p>\n<p>OK, so why am I sharing this with you? Because perspective is everything.<\/p>\n<p>Truth is, it doesn&#8217;t really matter how long the white dashes are on the streets (unless it&#8217;s our job to\u00a0paint them). So whether we see them as 2 feet long (like I do) or 10 feet long (as they really are)&#8211; it&#8217;s not going to make a difference in our world.<\/p>\n<p>But &#8220;HOW WE SEE THINGS&#8221; in life (our perception) can mean the difference from being miserable,\u00a0unhappy, angry, broke and broken or happy, joyful, productive, wealthy and abundant. Our perception determines<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">how hard or easy something is&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8230;if it&#8217;s possible or impossible<br \/>\n&#8230;if we deserve it or we don&#8217;t<br \/>\n&#8230;if we can have it or not<br \/>\n&#8230;if people love us or hate us<\/p>\n<p>And the list could go on and on.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/half-full.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1472 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/half-full-300x227.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"227\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/half-full-300x227.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/half-full-396x300.jpg 396w, https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/half-full.jpg 449w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>You&#8217;ve heard the saying, &#8220;Perception Is Reality&#8221;.\u00a0And while that&#8217;s not actually true&#8230;Because no matter how long or short I believe the lines are&#8211;they&#8217;re\u00a0still 10 feet long.<\/p>\n<p>What IS true is that how we look at things greatly determines how we experience life.\u00a0 <strong>Our perception becomes our reality. <\/strong>This is why it&#8217;s so critical to learn to look at life with optimistic, loving, hopeful and abundant eyes. Because what we look for, we find.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Want to change your life? <\/strong>It starts with being <strong>CLEAR<\/strong> on <strong>WHAT YOU WANT<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Then learn to<strong> FOCUS<\/strong> your attention (thoughts, words and actions) <strong>ONLY<\/strong> on what brings you <strong>CLOSER TO IT<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/logo.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-919\" src=\"http:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/logo.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"226\" height=\"92\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Are you an UltaLifer? 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He&#8217;s my sidekick most of the time. Daniel is one of these dudes who likes to talk. And by that I mean he never stops \ud83d\ude09 I tend to stay in my head&#8211;because I&#8217;m a man of few words. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/perspective-changes-everything\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Perspective Changes Everything!<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,158],"tags":[13,32,159,243,162],"class_list":["post-1469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-habits-of-success","category-motivation","tag-habits-of-success","tag-happiness","tag-motivation","tag-perspective","tag-success"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1469"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1469\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1485,"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1469\/revisions\/1485"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultalife.co\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}